Put a voltmeter or tone generator w/LED (anything capable of letting you know voltage is there) across the line, call in to the system from a cell phone and have someone put you hold, then hang up and watch the meter... within about 15 seconds you should see the voltage drop to zero for approximately a second, this will confirm that the central office sending you a disconnect signal.
Note you might want a cheap analog volt meter, some digital meters are too slow to report the voltage drop. You can usually get them at your local hardware or electronics superstore (Lowe's, Menards, Home Depot, Micro Center, Fry's, etc) for around $10.