I have tried the pestering thing. They actually found it funny, like dangling the carrot.
I did the analog meter thing. See below:
line voltage: 48 volts
far-end caller rings: needle fluctuates
call pickup & connect: voltage drops real low (cant remember the reading)
far-end hangs up: voltage drops to about 0 then rises slightly above the "call connect" reading
voltage stays there for over 40 seconds until I manually dicsonnect quickly rises to 48 volts
Is this what is expected?