We are having issues with our softphones and UCA app - PLEASE HELP!!!

1. Our voice subnet is 10.x, our LAN subnet is 102.x - We have full traffic both ways. When we are on our data LAN, 102.x, we can make a softphone call to an internal extension with no issue but with only one-way audio. The person can hear me but I cannot hear them at all.
Again, we have opened ALL ports on our firewall to pass traffic to and from.
If I connect to the voice LAN, 10.x, I can make the softphone call with full audio - no issues.
2.Our UCA mobile will connect externally/remotely with no problem from our phones but our laptops cannot connect externally/remotely.
Laptops resolve correct external IP address and I can login through web service to the external site but cannot get the UCA desktop app to login. Continues to tell me its offline.
For reference we are using a 3300ICP/MCD